| چکیده انگلیسی مقاله |
The friendship of college students with the opposite sex and its growing depth at the level of the universities of the country, has now emerged as a transcendental phenomenon and has found a family and community dimension. It seems that friendly relations with the opposite sex among boys and girls have meanings, dimensions, effects and different outcomes. This article aims to investigate the gender of this phenomenon with emphasis on perceptions and motives, consequences, modeling and. This phenomenon among boys and girls is studied by students of Kharazmi University.research approach of present study was qualitative, and research method was based on phenomenology. Population under study was consisted of two groups of male and female students of B.A. and M.A. degree of Kharazmi University. By applying a targeted sampling method and snowball strategy, a deep semi-structured interview was conducted with 15 female students and 15 male students, having theoretical saturation criterion in mind for reaching a sample size. For data analysis, thematic context analysis technique was applied.Findings shown that, male and female students have different experience and understanding from relationship with the opposite sex, and they enter the relationship with distinct motivations. The underlying factors for such motivation distinction includes family atmosphere, university condition, hostel condition, cyberspace, and peer group which are playing natural roles in relationship between the opposite sex in students.The female students had a romantic and romantic understanding of the relationship with the opposite sex, and the understanding of the male students of this relationship was based on the pleasurable and sexual nature.The most noted characteristics in female students include displaying false self, and immersion in romance. In male students, these characteristics include instability, and non-commitment in relationship, Lack of real representation, preparation for instability of relationships, and awareness of the relations of absurdity. The findings show that girls are more likely to seek emotional relationships, marriage and life, and that male students are more pleasurable and sexual nature. Keywords: relationship with the opposite sex, Sex, Romantic relationship, Pleasure relationship |